07 Mar Multilingual Dating: Should I Date Someone Who Speaks Another Language
Have you found yourself falling for someone who does not speak your language while taking German classes in one of the top German language institutes in Delhi? Or the same happened to you but, in a different situation?
Well! It is very common to feel love at first sight or a kind of an infatuation towards someone irrespective of their caste or creed. However, it is possible that you might feel a kind of discomfort before asking that special person for a date. Just because they do not understand your language and you fear that problems might occur due to the obvious language barrier.
You must stop thinking too much and have a look at the following points which will make you understand whether it is a right move to date someone who speaks another language or not.
- Learning new language
One of the best pros of dating someone who does not speak your language is that both of you will be able to learn each other’s language. Learning a different language is not just going to be a necessary task to perform but also it is going to be an interesting journey for both of you.
- Excess use of body language
When two people who don’t understand each other’s language are in a relationship, they have the benefit of communicating with the help of the body language. For instance, instead of saying ‘I Love You’ in different languages, you both can easily give each other a tight hug to signify that you love one another so much. Believe it or not but communicating through bodily gestures is the best way to keep such kind of relationships strong.
- Learn new culture
Just like learning a new language, both of you are going to learn new cultures as well because alike the languages, the cultures are going to be different from one another to some extent at least. Dating a foreigner helps you to learn so more about different culture. You can taste some of the best foods of your partner’s country, visit various essential places, wear their ethnic clothes, take part in their major festivities, and can do a lot more.
- No unnecessary bickering
It is not a joke but absolutely true that you will not find yourself quarrelling over petty issues. Being not fluent in each other’s languages, both of you will find it hard to form sentences just to fight on a particular thing. That is why, you two will let go of unimportant matters and squabble only when it is a matter of high importance.
- Easy to know your fondness
When there is so much difficulty in communicating with each other, you would not want your valuable time to waste on someone who is not worth it, right? So, while having a partner who speaks a different language and there is a high level of difficulty in understanding what they are trying to say, you easily tend to figure out whether you like that person or not. If you have real feelings for them, you will not hesitate to make efforts in the relationship just to be with them.
Therefore, if you are really interested in the one who you saw in your German language course in Delhi or you met someone through other circumstances, then keep the above points in mind and make a final decision for yourself.